Therapist Self-Care...and Morning Earth

Posted Tue Feb 1st 2011 by Dan Rebek

We psychotherapists work hard don’t we? I certainly hear that from behavior health professionals these days. Many say that today’s working environment is as challenging as ever (and exciting as well).

Clients who bring more complicated, difficult situations. The stressful demands of insurance and financial factors. Increasing accountability requirements. I’ll stop there because you’re well aware of the challenges.

We psychotherapists know that, in a challenging field like ours, taking care of ourselves is pretty important. Our “selves” are the single best instruments we have for helping others. Despite all this wisdom a part of our minds often says, “Yea, yea, I agree, but… I don’t have the time to be good to myself”.

There is no magic bullet for therapist self-care. On the other hand, I’m quite convinced that each of us can find a package of things that makes a difference for us. Below I’ve shared one resource that takes very little of our precious time.

One Brief, Simple Self–Care Resource

John Caddy lives in Forest Lake, MN, and nearly every day he carries his camera and notebook outdoors and creates a Morning Earth entry. Each simply consists of a photograph and a few lines of writing/poetry. I receive a free Morning Earth entry each day, open it, and enjoy the surprise. I usually don’t have to work at it. The photograph and poem take care of me.

Rather than me going on and on about Morning Earth, click the logo just above for a preview of what a Morning Earth email is like. But just subscribing yourself is the best way to experience it. John has made it simple to receive Morning Earth. You can subscribe here.

What are your thoughts? Do you have any self-care suggestions you’d like to share?

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2 Comments

1 year and 3 months ago Suzanne L. wrote:

Like the idea of a blog at this site … a blog for and by all of us provider types. So, thank you.

Thinking about the gift and challenge of the parallel process within the therapeutic relationship. You know … that thing that sometimes happens in which both you and your client/patient are dealing with the same thing. It is painful … yet, sometimes a gift.

Facing this issue right now myself … a horrific loss … my patient’s … and behind the scenes, my own.

Wouldn’t mind hearing other people’s “experiences, hopes and strengths” around this subject …

1 year and 3 months ago Dan R. wrote:

Suzanne, thank you for sharing this. Not sure we therapists talk much about this kind of experience-which is an inevitable one for therapists.

When I’m in similar pain as my client it seems that if I’m not being compassionate with myself on my own issue, that somehow ends up surfacing in the therapy in a negative way. When I’m more compassionate with myself, things just seem to turn out better. Then the overlap between my experience and the client’s experience can be utilized in a way that I can be more compassionate with the client.
In these situations I seem to need more consultation with colleagues to effectively sort what’s my experience and what’s the client’s. When my issue feels embarassing however, that option isn’t always easy, so personal therapy seems a better route.
Disclosure is a tricky decision too. If the pain is something like a loss, do I disclose this to my client? Of course there’s no cookbook answer for that. Really depends on the needs of the client, and the nature of the therapeutic relationship.
What have others experienced? Success factors? Pitfalls?

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